10 THINGS TO DO ON A DATE THAT DOESN'T INVOLVE ALCOHOL

Let’s be real: not every date needs to be a “let’s grab a drink” situation. Whether you’re cutting back, going full sober, or just want to remember what your date actually said, there are plenty of solid date options that don’t involve booze. And no, they don’t all involve kombucha or awkward silences.

Here are 10 things you can do on a date that are fun, low-pressure, and way more memorable than shouting over bar music.

1. Go for a Walk (Actually Pretty Great)

Not just a walk – a good walk. Think beach at sunset, a national park, or somewhere with a decent lookout. Walking side-by-side takes the pressure off and makes conversation way easier. Bring a coffee or ice cream and you're golden.

2. Cooking Class (Yes, Seriously)

Hear me out. You get to make something cool, probably laugh a lot, and sneak in some flirting over dough or dumplings. Plus, if it goes well, you’ve now got a built-in second date: cooking dinner together at home.

3. Farmers’ Market Stroll

If you want a chill morning date, this is it. Taste-test weird cheeses, rate baked goods, and pretend you know things about olive oil. It’s casual, it’s low-commitment, and you’ll leave with snacks.

4. Bowling or Mini Golf

You don’t need to be Tiger Woods or a pro bowler – in fact, it’s funnier if you’re not. It’s competitive but not serious, and perfect for breaking the ice. Trash talk encouraged.

5. See a Comedy Show

If you're both laughing your heads off at the same jokes, that's a green flag. Bonus: it gives you something to talk about afterwards that isn’t the weather.

6. Art Gallery or Museum (But Not Boring)

Yes, you might see a giant blue canvas and wonder if a toddler painted it. That’s part of the fun. Roam around, make up fake stories about the art, and judge everything together. It’s actually a great way to see how your date sees the world.

7. Build a Killer Picnic

Low effort, high reward. Grab your favourite eats, a speaker, and a picnic rug. Head to a park, the beach, or somewhere quiet. It’s kind of old-school romantic without being over the top.

8. Do Something Slightly Ridiculous

Rock climbing, trampoline parks, indoor go-karting – it doesn’t need to be extreme, just unexpected. You’ll both look a little silly, and that’s where the fun is.

9. Hit Up a Board Game Café or Arcade

Whether it’s Mario Kart or Monopoly, you’ll get into the competitive spirit and have an excuse to sit close. Just don’t pick Monopoly if you want the date to end well.

10. Volunteer Together (Yep, This One’s Cool Too)

Doing something that feels meaningful (like helping out at an animal shelter or beach clean-up) makes for a unique date – and shows you’re not just about the small talk. Plus: puppies.

You don’t need a drink in your hand to have a good time. Pick something fun, keep it light, and focus on good vibes. A great date is all about connection – not cocktails.

And hey, if it goes well? You’ve got a second date idea right here in the list.